Letting Go for the First Time

Do you remember letting go for the first time? Do you recall the first time you completely submitted to a hypnotic trance, erotic or not? I find there are fewer and fewer people experiencing erotic hypnosis for the first time. Perhaps this is because My rates are high compared to when I first started offering hypnosis sessions. This is likely why the new hypnoslave is currently so elusive for Me. While I miss dealing with people who experience trance for the first time, I like charging an appropriate rate for My services more 馃槈 Perhaps a cheapy day a month or something… But I digress.

How well do you remember letting go for the first time? Do you think back on it? A lot of people either have fond memories of their first experience. That first moment when they truly let go and experienced the delights that erotic hypnosis could provide. When they realise to what extent erotic hypnosis is truly the ultimate expression of submission. Imagine if you could harness that power, the newness of the experience and bring it forward into ever hypnotic experience you have from now on? While I am sure you have experienced deeper trance, the excitement that accompanies something new, is a powerful thing.

There is power from letting go for the first time, there i power in recreating the experience or at least revisiting the emotions that ran through you as you submitted to the will of another for the first time. Power not only for you who experiences it but also for Us HypnoDommes who provide you with that experience. It creates a stronger connections and when done properly, will fortify the bonds between slave and Goddess.

Imagine if the experience of letting go for the first time was with your current Goddess! Imagine if you were an erotic hypnosis virgin until you met Her and every experience has had Her as your primary focus. The intensity that would create!

What was your first time like? Do you still worship the same HypnoDomme?

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Meaningful Mesmerizing Memories

It’s not enough to just experience erotic hypnosis, I want to create meaningful mesmerizing memories. The type of moments that you reflect back on and your body and mind respond immediately to the memory. The type of moments you get lost in for days, weeks, even years to come. Upon returning back from a rather lengthy hiatus, I have noticed that so many of you have memories, thoughts, impressions, that have lasted for so long! This is what hypnosis is about. It’s about submission, of course. Control, for sure. Getting into your head and making it My playground, absolutely.

The Impact of Meaningful Mesmerizing Memories

  1. They can and do act as triggers without being specifically geared to that effect. A powerful memory can be just as effective, if not more effective after time, as a trigger. Erotic triggers serve to bring you to a space similar to that you experienced within a session. They can also be used to affect future behaviours in certain situations. While a meaningful mesmerizing memory does not necessarily influence behaviour as successfully as a trigger, it can however impact your behaviour to a deeper degree than you may have originally thought.
  2. A rush of hormones similar to the experience itself. Every experience, good or bad, brings about a flood of hormones. Our (healthy) endocrine system responds automatically聽and the hormones released will depend on what the body needs when facing that moment. When dealing with memories, our endocrine system, depending on the intensity of the experience, can respond. Not as profoundly as it did when you first experienced it but the hormonal response has the potential to stay with you. Think of the release of oxytocin when thinking back on a really epic joining or sexual other sexual experience.
  3. A whirlwind of emotions. This can be either a positive or a negative, depending on circumstances.

Not only can memories, actual memories impact you in these ways but using erotic hypnosis, a HypnoDomme can create meaningful mesmerizing memories. Memory implantation. The events feel and seems so real that they impact you in the same fashion as mesmerizing memories. This can greatly impact the possibilities for mind control. So many possibilities.

Can you tell the difference between what is real and what has been planted?

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Hypnotic Resolution for 2016

Our solstice set up 2015. Made My Own hypnotic resolution then.

Finding a hypnotic resolution can be simple with the right motivation. By motivation, I mean suggestions from Me 馃槈 While I do not usually encourage New Year’s Resolutions as they generally fizzle out within a week or so, I feel that it is important that we have goals and work towards them. I have written about knowing your hypnotic goals in the past and I believe this is crucial to reaching the maximum potential of your hypnotic desire. Create a hypnotic resolution that complements your ultimate hypnotic goal.

Guide聽to creating a Hypnotic Resolution

  1. Know your hypnotic goal. What do you want to achieve before the end of 2016. No, this is not your resolution. This is the end game goal. your hypnotic resolution should be the first step to achieving that goal.
  2. Make sure it is actually possible. So many people break the covenant they make with themselves because ultimately, their resolution was just not possible. This serves only to discourage you from future success. So make sure your hypnotic resolution is doable.
  3. Adaptability. Create a resolution that is adaptable. Not only should it be possible but it should also have the ability to change over time and as you advance toward your ultimate goal.

Starting point for your Hypnotic Resolution

Still not sure where to start? Here are some things to think about when creating your hypnotic resolution this year.

  • Desire, what do you desire? What do you want?
  • Direction, where do you want to go? What direction would you like to see your hypnotic moments go?
  • Habit, why not create a new habit? Repeat your daily affirmations upon waking every single morning. Listen to My voice while falling asleep, set up time every day to devote to Me.

Ultimately, the hypnotic resolution is for you to discover and strive towards. While I am available to help you create a resolution that is both doable and adaptable, this is for you to discover and implement.

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The Trust Factor

The trust factor is often either overlooked or taken for granted within the Hypnotist-subject dynamic. In My experience, most people assume that trust has been established through virtue of having a single communication. And while you can trust the intentions of your Hypnotist from a single encounter, the deeper, almost palpable trust connection takes time to really establish itself. Each interaction solidifies the initial feelings of trust and helps manifest as a truly trusting relationship. Why is trust so important? Can Hypnotists succeed without trust? How does this pertain to erotic hypnosis and should it be something we strive for?

The Importance of the Trust Factor

I talk about trust a lot. It plays an important role in all our relationships from your neighbour to your Domme, your partner. We have so many relationships and so many of them deepen when the trust factor is taken into account. An individual trusts that their neighbours will not break into their home. Trust. If you don’t know them, you will be more hesitant to open your door to them. The trust factor allows relationships to extent past their default setting. When you trust, you are more likely to open up and step out of your comfort zone. When looking at a power dynamic, like D-s or Hypnotist-subject, trust allows you to explore things more deeply. Something simple like spanking, for example, can be seen as abusive but with the trust factor in place, what can be perceived as an assault becomes erotic, sensual. Erotic Hypnosis works under a similar premise. If you trust your Hypnotist, then the deeper you are able to go.

Erotic Hypnosis Without Trust

Erotic hypnosis can be experienced without trust. It is not essential to a superficial hypnotic experience. Without trust though, the experience becomes just that superficial, with a deeper dynamic. While it can be fun, and is generally the starting point to most Hypnotist-subject relationship, it’s potential without trust is limited. The trance can be deep but it will not be representative of the potential when trust is in place.

Ultimately, trust should be the goal of any interaction you have. It is less important that the Hypnotist trust the subject. Depending on the goal(s) of your relationship, a Hypnotist needs you to trust Her and not the other way around. That being said though, as a HypnoDomme, I like the trust fact to go both ways. I am more inclined to be creative with subjects that I trust, as well as more open with My Own experiences when we are talking.

So in the future, to let go and trance more effectively , focus instead on building trust rather than the trance itself. The trance will happen either way, but the extent of which will be determined by the trust factor.

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Weekly Hypnotic Task One

I will be releasing a new weekly hypnotic task every Monday from today forward. These tasks will vary in how they are to presented to you, ie audio, video, written. Each will have a specific goal in mind, and depending on My mood I will share it with you.

These tasks will involve a sacrifice, your time, physical discomfort,etc. The weekly hypnotic task will cut into various parts of your existence. It is not about forcing you to “out” yourself but rather to find ways to express your devotion within more parts of your life than just when you have some free time.

Hypnotic Task One

your first task is simple. Not too taxing. I would like you to find five minutes, yes only five minutes, where you can be completely alone, and silent. I want you to set a timer, for five minutes. Nudity is recommended, though not absolutely necessary at this stage in your training. you will kneel, on the ground. This will likely cause some discomfort and eventually some aching. This is the sacrifice involved.

During your five minutes, I want you to empty your mind of everything. The silence and stillness of your mind is what I am after for this exercise. Breath through your abdomen. Expand and contract with every breathe and clear your mind.

This will be difficult. The clearing of your mind. Five minutes is not a long time and if you can do more, I encourage you to do so. Five minutes is the minimum. This will be done daily for a week. you will find your moment and while it will not be focused on Me, you will get your mind ready for potential programming by Me.

Alternative: For those of you who are not capable of kneeling for five minutes. If you can, work toward kneeling but should that not be possible sit on the floor crossed legged or lay on your back. This should be done on the floor. If there are medical conditions that prevent you from being on the floor, your bed is an acceptable alternative. Key word here being medical conditions!

I would love to hear how this week progresses for you.

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Emotional Fluctuations

Having just come out of a rather turbulent emotional roller-coaster, and its effects still clear in My mind, I decide to go over some of the emotional fluctuations that can potentially occur when you submit to erotic hypnosis. Like anything, there are various levels of submission and you might find that you are not as emotionally impacted as others. For this post, I am making a distinction between submission for a session and submission to a Goddess or Domme. Both are extremely powerful and both have different effects.

Emotional fluctuations can vary from one person to the next, and one session to the next. Emotional fluctuations can be different depending on who you are submitting to, or the nature of the sessions. We live in a world where emotional fluctuations are generally seen as negative. I rarely, if ever, see an emotional response as a negative, including My Own emotions. I could go on about emotions forever, but right now we are focusing on the emotional fluctuations that can happen during erotic hypnosis sessions. This list is by no means, complete. There are an almost infinite number of possible emotional responses. The intensity can vary from person to person, experience to experience, day to day.

Top Five聽Emotional Fluctuations During Erotic Hypnosis

  1. Lust to Love
  2. Desire to Resentment
  3. Love to Devotion
  4. submission to slavery
  5. Fear to Eroticism

1. Lust to Love:

Erotic hypnosis almost by its very nature is about lust. Sexual energy is high. Lust for both the experience and the Domme. Over time (sometimes through a single session) that lust evolves to love. True love? Not likely but love none the less. Where once you may have objectified your Goddess, it is replaced by a new found respect and care for Her on a deeper level than you were expecting. On a side note, this emotional fluctuation can occur even before a session. This is easily the most common fluctuation. I always find it interesting to watch this occur between subject and HypnoDomme. Even when I am not involved and watching from the outside.

This is one of the emotional fluctuations that rarely revert back. Chances are you will always love Her. It may lessen in intensity, or you may come to see it as “two ships passing in the night” but the love will always be there in some form or another.

2. Desire to Resentment:

I聽struggled with the decision to add this emotional fluctuation. It is rather negative but with the right Domme, such emotional changes will be perceived before they become an issue or She will use this change to plant the seeds for further transformation. There are moments when a submissive may find themselves resenting their Goddess. Not for something She has said or done, but rather the level of control She has over their existence. I see this as a natural progression to devotion. Resentment shows that there is an understanding as to how intense the HypnoDomme-subject relationship can actually be. Do not feel discouraged either as the subject or the Domme when this fluctuation occurs.

This is an example of an emotional fluctuation that must be an evolution of the relationship. It ends in one of two ways. 1) The resentment is dispelled as the subject accepts the control She has over them. 2) The relationship ends. This is by no means a reflection of the Hypnotist’s skill but rather a manifestation of how far the subject was willing to let the relationship go. It could be that the subject was not yet at the point in their life where this intensity was an acceptable part of their life.

3. Love to Devotion:

This transformation is My favourite. This is when a subject transcends love. Devotion is a different, deeper level of love. If you have read My Domme as a Leader piece, you may聽understand more of what I mean. This is when other emotional responses start to dissipate. The biggest one I notice, is jealousy. Can you really be devoted to someone if you spend more time being jealous than devoted? No, you can’t. This is where you start to see yourself as an extension of your Goddess and Her experiences. When Her happiness is truly your happiness. Many claim to be at this juncture in their relationships but they are still a little shy of the truest expression of devotion, more on that another time.

4. submissive to slave:

One of the more subtle of the emotional fluctuations, a transformation from submissive to slave, at least as per My definition. Not everyone will agree that this is an emotional change but rather a change in lifestyle choice. While I agree to a certain extent, there are emotions that are present in a submissive that are not part of the slave interaction and vise versa. A slave is a complete loss of the self, you belong, you are owned. There are a multitude of emotional transitions there. Those who have witnessed this change will know what I mean.

5. Fear to Eroticism:

I have spent quite some time describing this emotional fluctuation, so I won’t get too much into it. But as you can imagine this is an intense emotional fluctuation that is undervalued.

There are many more emotional fluctuations, I am sure you have experienced some that are not mentioned here. Share in the comments or privately.

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Thoughts Manifesting as Physical

The power of thoughts, intentions, affirmations, etc. is not completely understood. What is understood is that by thinking you can manifest a physical response. This is the basis for erotic hypnosis. Words, thoughts, images painted by a strong HypnoDomme manifests a physical response in the subject. The best example, hearing My voice and you start feeling arousal immediately. This power that everyone possesses is often untapped. How can we tap into it? How can you do it when you’re Goddess is not available for a session? Is She necessary to feel Her influence? How can you work on thoughts manifesting as physical response?

thoughts manifesting as physical responses

Hypnotic Thoughts Manifesting as Physical

There are a number of examples of hypnotic thoughts manifesting as physical reactions.聽Experience plays on role on how intensely you feel the response.

  • Hands Free Orgasms, you are not touching, there is no physical stimulus and yet there is a physical response.
  • Trigger Words, these words implanted in previous session with your Hypnotist can potentially create a physical response in your body, like arousal, or even flaccidity depending on the response you are looking for
  • Immobilization, certain hypnosis sessions with Me involve immobilization. This is not Me physically tying you but rather your body being unable to move from the picture I painted with My words and influence.

The potential is limitless. With the right erotic hypnotist, anything is possible.

What if your HypnoDomme is not available to create or implant hypnotic thoughts manifesting as physical responses? A little bit of panic, I know but turn that panic into another emotion. Use it to fuel your internal dialogue into positive affirmations directed at your Goddess. There are some options for you, recorded sessions, affirmations and finding a moment to breath in your Goddess. Breath and think of Her. Allow the thoughts of Her manifest responses in your body.

What’s your favourite hypnotic thought manifesting physical reaction experience?

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Hypnotic Trance: The Ultimate Submission

091415In the quest for the act of ultimate submission, hypnosis reigns supreme.聽No other act聽has the potential to touch a submissive on聽so many levels. The three main domains聽of submission are touched in an erotic hypnosis session. While other style sessions can compare, it is up to the Domme to make sure all aspects of your being is touched by Her influence. While worshiping, in a session or on your own, you should always keep the three domains聽in mind and try to touch on each. If a part of you is not satisfied, or a domain聽is lacking, it is your responsibility to voice concerns to your Goddess.

The three domains聽of submission are physical, emotional and spiritual. Erotic hypnosis is the ultimate submission as it touches on each other the domains of submission. There are subdomains and various other aspects that are touched in a Ds or BDSM relationship but for now, we will focus on the three main domains.

  • Physical, this domain is best represented through bondage.
  • Emotional, the clearest representation of the emotional domain is humiliation. While I am not someone to focus on humiliation it is a clear representation of the emotional domain.
  • Spiritual, body worship being the clearest demonstration of this domain.

While each domain has a fetish (if you will) that best represents them, erotic hypnosis touch on each level manifesting the ultimate submission.

The Physical Domain of Ultimate Submission

The physical. Hypnosis works best while you are still. While you can move during a session, hypnosis makes it so that physical movement needs to be commanded by the Domme. It can also make it so that a thought, or image running through your mind has a physical manifestation. Like becoming aroused or orgasming to a trigger or suggestion from the HypnoDomme.

The Emotional Domain of Ultimate Submission

A proper hypnotist can not only play with your emotions but also change your future emotional responses. Be it to Her or the situation, Goddess can create a positive emotional environment with which you can grow and emerge as a submissive. It is also represented in the emotional connection you have with your Domme. Though the earlier example showed a negative emotional response, hypnosis can be either positive or negative.

The Spiritual Domain of Ultimate Submission

The spiritual domain is best represented through erotic hypnosis. The right Hypnotist will touch your soul. Many of you have had this experience, where the connection is so deep and so strong. your entire spirit feels in tune with the words of your Goddess.

If you feel one of these domains are not satisfied, it is crucial that you speak with your Mistress about it. She might not notice the disconnect or not realise to what extent it extends. That is your responsibility. She has some accountability in it as well but you should voice and keep the lines of communications open.

Hypnotic Trance is the Ultimate submission as it touches on every one of the submission domains. While there are other practices that can and do touch on each domain. Hypnosis is the way I enjoy it the most.

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Establishing a Connection

090615How should you go about establishing a connection with a Domme? I often write about the聽importance of the connection between Goddess and subject. This is an important aspect of your submission that can be overlooked by shiny objects (pictures) and the like. A focus on the physical to create that connection can often lead to a short term submission. Sometimes, that is what you want. A Domme for the moment as opposed to a Domme for your life. I don’t mind the drive by subjects, the ones just looking for a momentary distraction from their vanilla life or a part time replacement for their regular Goddess when She is not available. There is nothing wrong with your erotic self being secondary to other things, so long as you are honest with both yourself and your Goddess.

Say you want to establish a lasting connection. Something worth more than buying time or files. Something that will be lasting and create a bond between you and your desired Goddess. How will you go about it?

It seems obvious to say contact Her, but that contact has a price, one you should be willing to pay. If you are not willing to pay it, or have experienced a history of bad connections and have since become more frivolous with your money, know that paying to contact is not an option. Find ways around it. This does not mean contact Her and say something ridiculous like “just want to know what you would do?” Shit like that makes Us Dommes cringe and block you. We don’t have time to deal with that type of stuff. People contact us on a daily basis with similar requests and it is too complicated to try and weed out those that are actually looking for a connection and those that just want to get off. (There are more rants to this effect but you know what I mean)

So here is a short list of ways to establish an initial connection with your chosen Goddess:

  • Tribute and Buy Time, even with the previous paragraph in mind, paying for time, sending a tribute or gift is still the BEST way to connect. This shows the Domme you are serious about wanting to establish a connection and that you are aware Her time is money. Even if it is just getting to know Her with simple questions. We get asked these questions a lot.
  • READ, most of Us have blogs, read them. Connect with Her words and not Her images. See where She stands on fetishes that are important to you. Find out what is important to Her.
  • Check out Her wishlist. With the right mind, you can look through a wishlist to get to know who She is and what She likes. Buy Her something while you are there. Check out if there are multiple lists, not just the one main one.
  • Follow Her on social media. Some Dommes ask for a tribute for this privilege, it is a privilege not a right. When you follow, We get notifications, every interaction helps boost Us. So follow, share, comment (respectfully). (*** Quick note about Facebook, for Me, I usually ignore friend requests without prior interaction but you can follow Me and/or follow My pages’ feeds.)
  • Sing Her praises when free content is released. Share it on your social media platforms. Comment on posts or videos. Make it so She recognises you, your name, your username, etc.
  • Send an email to say you have been checking Her stuff out. An email. Not an IM. And do so without the promise of a reply. Do it because you are impressed with who She is not because you want Her to reply. If She does, bonus, if She doesn’t who cares, that was never the goal.

Establishing a connection is important. Trust is important. These tips could help you聽establish a deep connection, or at least realise ways to serve Her better.

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The Calming Effect of Water

Every single time I take a bath, I am reminder of the absolute bliss that is being submerged in water.聽The calming effect of water is not something that should be ignored. For Me, the effect is not limited to submersion but also just about any moment where water and My skin connects, be it in the rain, shower, bath, swimming, you get the idea. I聽realise聽that not everyone feels as聽connected to water as I do. That not everyone responds to the summer rain with glee and the urge to dance around nude, but there is no denying that water can be calming and comforting.

The Calming Effect of Water with Ambre JadeThis calming effect, the comfort some individuals find when聽water surrounds them, in My opinion, is the result of the memory of being safe and secure within their Mother’s womb. I am sure some will argue with Me. I believe this correlation is not something to be ignored, it is in fact something that should be considered when creating an erotic hypnosis environment. I am not trying to fetishize your early conception environment but rather exaggerate, expand on the feelings of comfort and safety that were (in most cases) so tangible even when our memory fails us.

I cannot stress enough the importance of trust and security where hypnosis is concerned, erotic or not. Yes, there are files and environments where you want the blood to pump aggressively and the environment to cause your heart to skip some beats but when initiating the trance, when deepening the trance that sense of calm, that safety is not to be ignored. Giving yourself over to another person, giving your mind over to a HypnoDomme is something that requires a similar sense of security you had in the womb. you have no control over what happens to you, the environment is changed to suit another’s will but you feel safe. you trust. you can constantly rely on the calming effect of water surrounding your being.

The connections to our past experiences are important. They shape us, whether or not we are aware of their influence. My influence, My control work with your being and the experiences that created the person that is you. A skilled Hypnotist keeps this in mind and understand that every experience, even early conception can be opposed through hypnosis and can be either exploited, expounded or exaggerated. Like the calming effect of water.

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